Self Care

Tara has been in my life for over 6 years now. When I would watch her and the confidence she displayed I always wondered how I could feel empowered, beautiful and sexy like she does. I would typically just pass my desire off to wanting to feel attractive or wanting eroticism in the bedroom as it is my husband’s job. As if it is HIS responsibility to make me feel this way, rather than choosing to FEEL the way I wanted to feel because I loved myself enough to take the time for self-care.  Self-care? Self-love? Those terms are used loosely without any merit to the actual action steps it takes to progressively learn the HOW.  After several TED talks, motivational books and seminars on WHY it is important I finally decided to speak with Tara and openly and honestly communicate my secret passionate fantasies.
 I mean she has a degree in this arena, right? What could it hurt? Well, let me tell you that after several sessions with her, her patient demeanor and many long discussions on what I REALLY wanted in my bedroom I can say that my love life has gone in a much different direction. Yes, I still have insecurities; I am still human, however now I listen to what my body is telling me.  I listen to what my heart fears and reframe the old tapes that have been playing. Old tapes such as men only want thin women. Men only like big breasts. Men want women younger than the age of 25, so how could he ever find me attractive.  Or get this one….. he is thinking of the last woman he was attracted to in order to climax.  LIES… LIES… LIES!
Thank you, Tara, for your loving way of allowing me to be present during our conversations. You are so tender in your approach when some very touchy topics have come up. Thank you for giving me a safe place to talk and really explore not only my sexuality but also my sensuality. Yes… those are different I found out. 🙂
You are amazing at what you do. I would recommend you to anyone!~~ <3
Self Care